.:unsynchronize mind & heart :.: June 2007

hhmmm...setelah liat judul tulisan ini, pasti jadi pada bertanya2...rumus apa sih itu?? rumus dari mana? apa sih maksudnya?? teori apa lagi tuh?? hukum apa yg menghasilkan rumus bgitu?? and so on..... hehe...
tenang-tenang...rumus di atas bukan rumus kimia, bukan rumus fisika, bukan rumus kalkulus,.....tapi itu adalah rumus yang gw dapet di TFT Kaderisasi pas duuullluuuuuuuuuuuuu bgt, dan diingetin lagi amaJapra.....
tulisan ini juga berhubungan dengan tulisan Kak Fajrin yg ttg masalah dan harapan...
hhmmm...itu sih tadi cuma bagian pendahuluan aja...mari kita mulai masuk ke pembahasan...

P = (I - R) * C

P untuk Problem
I untuk Idealism
R untuk Reality
C untuk Concern
(CMIIW)

dari rumus sederhana tadi itu, sebuah masalah ada ketika kenyataan tidak sesuai dengan keadaan ideal (manusia biasa menyebutnya harapan)...dalam hal ini kenyataan masih ada di bawah keadaan ideal..(klo kenyataan melebihi keadaan ideal, ga masalah itu kynya mah)...tapi selain keadaan ideal dan kenyataan,masih ada satu faktor lagi yang mempengaruhi besarnya sebuah masalah...sebuah masalah ada ketika concern / perhatian kita besar pada kesenjangan nilai antara kenyataan dan keadaan ideal tadi...kalo emg ada kesenjangan nilai antara kenyataan dan keadaan ideal, tapi kita nya juga cuek2 ajah, ya ga jadi masalah itu mah...

Masalah akan terlihat semakin besar ketika perhatian kita pada masalah itu semakin besar, ataupun kenyataan yang semakin jauh dengan keadaan ideal..

Dari rumus di atas, kita mendapatkan 3 cara ampuh untuk "meng-nol-kan" atau memperkecil masalah...
1. berusaha sekuat tenaga agar kenyataan ini sesuai dengan keadaan ideal (harapan)..
2. menganggap apa yg ada sekarang memang keadaan ideal (turunkan harapan)..
3. cuekin aja...ga usah memperhatikan kenyataan dan keadaan ideal yg ga sesuai...

Se-simple itu kah?? sayang nya hidup ga sesederhana itu..ga sesederhana P = (I - R) *C..menyelesaikan masalah ga bisa hanya mempraktekkan tiga cara di atas...bahkan, percaya ga percaya, ketiga cara di atas punya P-nya (masalahnya) masing-masing...jadi ky fungsi rekursif gitu deh...(jah...tahpapa..)

yang sampai saat ini gw percaya adalah, seperti yg Kak Fajrin bilang, bermasalah adalah salah satu bukti bahwa kita adalah manusia...karena dengan ada nya masalah, berarti kita masih mempunyai harapan..dan harapan akan selalu ada untuk mahluk yg bernama manusia (5cm)...

dan gw juga percaya, masalah lah yg membuat kita, sebagai seorang manusia, bertambah dewasa dalam menjalani dan memaknai hidup..(seperti yg Japra selalu bilang)

so, sekian tulisan gw kali ini...klo mo protes, ngasih saran, kritik, nambahin rumus baru, silahkan ngasih comment ya...(cuma biar di komentarin aja...)

tadi siang, tiba2 hape berbunyi, tanda ada yg ngirim message ke ym...ternyata kak Fitra yang nge ym, bilang "vin liat blog ku deh..,kamu skali2 ngepost yg ky gt juga donk..." kurang lebih bgitulah...jadilah gw, malem ini, di warnet, ngepost blog ini....hehe...

btw, postingan kali ini amat sangat panjang lho...(tulisan ini ditambahkan setelah selesai nulis..)..slamat membaca!!!

mari kita mulai....

RULES:
1.) Put your music player (iPod, iTunes, whateva) on shuffle
2.) Go to the next song for each question
3.) Use the song title as the answer to the question.
4.) NO CHEATING!

okay...siapin hape, pasang headset, play!

1.) How am I feeling today?
Don't go away - OASIS
and I wanna be there when you're coming down
and I wanna be there when you hit the ground
so don't go away, say what you say
but say that you'll stay
forever and a day in the time of my life
'cause i need more time
yes, i need more time, just to make things right
me and you what's going on?
all we seem to know is how to show the feelings that are wrong

2.) Where will I get married?
Better That We Break - Maroon5
It’s not right, not ok
Say the words that you say
Maybe we’re better off this way?
I’m not fine, I’m in pain
It’s harder everyday
Maybe we’re better off this way?
It’s better that we break
ga pas nih...

3.) What is my best friend’s theme song?
Twenty Something - Jamie Cullum
I don't want to get up, just let me lie in
leave me alone, I'm a twentysomething
Maybe I'll just fall in love, that could solve it all,
philosophers say that that's enough
there surely must be more, ooh
sepertinya gw tau nih lagu pointerny ke sapa...

4.) What is/was highschool like?
Sleep With Butterflies - Tori Amos
You say the word
You know I will find you
Or if you need some time
I don't mind
I don't hold on
To the tail of your kite
I'm not like the girls that you've known
But I believe I'm worth coming home to
Kiss away night
This girl only sleeps with butterflies
With butterflies
So go on and fly then boy
no comment...

5.) What is the best thing about me?
Shiver - Maroon5
There may not
Be another way to your heart
So I guess I'd better find a new way in
I shiver when I hear your name
Think about you but it's not the same
I won't be satisfied ‘til I'm under your skin
bener ga ya??

6.) How is today going to be?
Truth, Cry, and Lie - Letto
there’s a truth behind a cry
and there’s a cry behind a lie
on every thought that come out wrong
just learn from it and please stay strong
on every grudge and every fight
i miss u all day and night
it’s not easy to understand
but you must hold on you stand

bener banget...di balik kebohongan itu pasti ada air mata..dan ada kejujuran (yang sejujur2nya) di tiap tetes air mata...

7.) What is in store for this weekend?
Close To Heaven - Color Me Badd
It's gotta be love (love), sweet love (sweet love)
Whenever you near me (whenever you near me), ooh you make me happy baby
Love (love), sweet love (sweet love)
Whenever you near me (whenever you near me), ooh you make me happy baby
no comment...

8.) What song describes my parents?
When It's Over - Sugar Ray
When it’s over
that’s the time I fall in love again.
When it’s over
that’s the time you’re in my heart again.
And when you go, go, go, go
I know it never ends
never ends.
jah! apa pula inih...ga nyambung..

9.) How is my life going?
I'd rather dance with you - King Of Convinience
I'd rather dance with you than talk with you
So why don't we just move into the other room
There's space for us to shake, and hey, I like this tune
ahaha...gw ga bisa nari...mendingan ngomong dah..

10.) What song will they play at my funeral?
Secret - Maroon5
Everyone has a secret
Oh, can they keep it?
Oh no, they can't
pas funeral dimainin lagu benginian?? emangnya gw orgnya bocor yak??

11.) How does the world see me?
Island In The Sun - Weezer
On an island in the sun
We'll be playing and having fun
And it makes me feel so fine
I can't control my brain
mgkn, org2 ngeliat gw sebagai org yg selalu 'fine'

12.) What do my friends really think of me?
Lost In Space - Lighthouse Family
And I'll never lose my faith in you
How will I ever get to heaven, if I do
jadi geer...hehe..

13) Do people secretly lust after me?
This Love - Maroon5 fest. Kanye West
This love has taken its toll on me
She said goodbye too many times before
And her heart is breaking in front of me
And I have no choice, cause I won't say goodbye anymore
Jah!! apa inih maksudnya??

14.) How can I make myself happy?
Time After Time - Eva Cassidy
If you're lost, you can look
And you will find me
Time after time
If you fall I will catch you
I'll be waiting
Time after time
If you fall I will catch you
I will be waiting
Time after time
Time after time
menunggu bikin gw bahagia??

15.) What should I do with my life?
Where did it all go wrong - OASIS
But I hope you know
That it won't let go
It sticks around with you until the day you die
And I hope you know That it's touch and go
I hope the tears don't stain the world that waits outside
Where did it all go wrong?
gw ga ngerti...hehe

16.) Will I ever have children?
World filled with love - Craig David
Cause I'm a young heart living in a world filled with love,
so when teardrops fall from me like rain from above,
I can brush my troubles away,
know that deep down inside,
I got sunshine in my life
mgkn, ketika gw udh 'brush my troubles away'

17.) What is some good advice?
Hotel California - The Eagles
Welcome to the Hotel California
Such a lovely place
Such a lovely face
Plenty of room at the Hotel California
Any time of year
You can find it here
aahhh, udah mulai ngaco nih ah...

18.) What do I think my current theme song is?
Supersonic - OASIS
You need to find out
'Cos no one's gonna tell you what I'm on about
You need to find a way for what you want to say
But before tomorrow

19.) What does everyone else think my current life?
My Love - Justin Timberlake
Because, I can see us holding hands
Walking on the beach, our toes in the sand
I can see us on the country side
Sitting in the grass laying side by side
You can be my baby
Let me make you my lady
Girl you amaze me
Ain't gotta do nothin crazy
See all I want you to do is be my love
ah, ga nyambung...

20.) What type of men/women do you like?
Not Falling Apart - Maroon5
You don’t cry, you don’t care
Afraid to have a love affair
Is that your ghost or are you really there?
Now I can’t walk, I can’t talk anymore
Since you walked out the door
And now I’m stuck living out that night again
I’m not falling apart
ga tau ah...

21.) Will you get married?
Selalu denganmu - Tompi
Adakah, waktu yang tak terbatas.
Untukku, merasa bahagia
Saat-saat aku jatuh cinta.
Saat kuterbang jauh kesana
Selalu denganmu... kasihku selamanya
Selalu denganmu... cintaku bersama
amiiinnn........smoga nanti gw ama calon suami gw, awet sampe kakek dan nenek...:D

22.) What should I do with my love life?
Perhatikan Rani - Sheila on 7
Dan jangan takut, jangan layu
Pada semua cobaan yang menerpamu, jangan layu
Kami selalu bersamamu dalam derap
Dalam lelap mimpi indah bersamamu
jadi gw harus apa? ga jelas ah...

23.) Where will you live?
Feels Like It Should - Jamiroquai
Feels just like it should (Yeah-ow)
Feels just like it should (Yeah-ow)
Feels just like it should (I'm gonna get experienced)
Feels just like it should (Turn it up and drown)
bingung kan??

24.) What will your dying words be?
Time To Dance - Panic! At The Disco
Have some composure
And where is your posture?
Oh, no, no!
You're pulling the trigger
Pulling the trigger
All wrong

fffiiiiiuuuuuhhhh......

finally, selesai juga postingan yang panjang ini..terima kasih banyak untuk para pembaca yang dengan mata sangat sabarnya membaca postingan ini sampai akhir...gw sebenernya bukan termasuk orang yang percaya dengan hal2 yang bginian...hhmm....

mgkn ini salah satu cara bagi para pembaca untuk lebih mengenal diri gw...katanya sih kondisi psikologis seseorang dapat dilihat dari playlist lagunya..hehe....ga tau deh bener ato ngga..
postingan ini selingan juga buat para pembaca yg bosen baca blog gw yg isinya serius2 smuah...hehe..skali2 gpp kan ngepost bginian..hehe..

sampai ktmu di postingan berikutnya...mungkin dalam kondisi yg serius, mungkin sedih, mungkin seneng, mungkin santai, mungkin marah, dan mungkin2 yg lainnya...

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P = (I - R) * C

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